This is how it happened to me. I was 40 yrs old unhappy with my perfomance, and life decissions. I was going through severe depression. While sitting on my couch, I thought "I should just let God take over and tell me what to do, nobody could ruin their life any better than I did." I said to him, " I give my life to you, you either tell me what to do, or I'm not moving off this couch. I will just sit here until I die." I really meant it too. I was not going to continue as I did in the past, even if I had to die on that couch. It wasn't long though he came to me.